So you prefer to wear diapers instead of panties/boxers? Good. Diapers are obviously the better choice! Panties or boxers simply aren't absorbent in the slightest, and if you dribble even so much as a few drops, it'll be obvious that you had a small accident on the front of your bottoms. It's just better to be in diapers, just in case.
Naturally, people will eventually discover that you're wearing diapers, so it's best to be prepared for when that time comes. Here's how to handle that with different kinds of people!
1. Complete Strangers: These are the people that you find out in public, like supermarkets, on the street, and in various stores. If these people notice that you're diapered, you're in no danger at all, so don't worry about a thing! You'll never ever see these people ever again, and if you do, chances are that they are not going to remember you or why they remember you if they do. There is also a very, very, high chance that they will simply notice that you're wearing a diaper then not say anything about it at all.
Look at it from their point of view. Can you imagine how embarrassing it'd be for you to go up to someone and say, "Hey, your diaper is sticking out above your pants." It'd be incredibly awkward for both parties, so people usually don't do this. You'd be completely safe, aside from a few odd looks until you fix the problem. Long shirts and a sweatshirt tied around your waist are both great ways to hide your diaper sticking up over your waistband. You can also wear onesies or tuck your shirt into your bottoms.
At the end of the day, you can easily forget about these people noticing that you're wearing a diaper. They'll just see that you're in a diaper (if it's really obvious, of course, but you shouldn't be flaunting your diaper or making it obvious in the first place), shrug, and then go on with their day.
2. Friends: Now this is when it gets interesting. Depending on the situation, there are many ways to deal with this, but here are a couple scenarios.
Let's say you're hanging out with a single friend and they notice that you're wearing a diaper and they react in a negative way. You can easily say that you lost a bet, and that it was either wear diapers for a day or pay $100. Just laugh it off with them and say you'd wear diapers any day instead of paying up. If they say, "Well, couldn't you have just said that you did it instead of actually doing it?", then you can respond with, "I'm a man/woman of my word." You can then also say that if you won the bet, the other person would have had to snort two lines of super hot sauce in each of their nostrils or pay you $100.
There's a decent chance of them telling their friends about you in a diaper. You can either laugh it off and act like it's no big deal or you can vehemently deny everything. They don't have any proof to back up their claim, but you can pretty much count on that person no longer being your friend anymore, obviously. Besides, if they went and blabbed about you in diapers to others, then they weren't really your friend to begin with. Cut them out of your life and move on if they make a big deal about it.
Another scenario would be if a friend found out and responded in a positive manner. You could also say that it was a bet in the scenario above or you could simply tell them the truth if your friendship with them is strong. You wouldn't really have much to worry about in this situation, and who knows, they might do some research about the fetish and try it out. Even if they don't try it out, a good friend would want to learn more to understand it.
3. Family: Now this is a very tricky situation to handle, and it really depends on who finds out and how weak or strong your relationship with them is. Everyone's family situation is different, so it's very hard to navigate this or to suggest what to do, but if you think your relationship with your parents is strong, I recommend that you tell the truth. You like diapers. What of it? It's not like you're buying drugs or alcohol. It'll be awkward for them and for you, of course, but that's to be expected. If you still live at home and use diapers there, just be as discreet as possible; your parents might just ignore it if you're lucky. If not, just wear them when they aren't home and dispose of them before they get home.
Your parents finding your diapers, dry or used, will be very awkward for them. Naturally, they'll wonder if it's a medical issue and they'll ask you about it. Once again, the truth is your best friend. Just say that it's a fetish for you and leave it at that. Don't lie and say that you need them for a medical reason because your parents will most likely take you to the doctor.
Things will be tense for a while, so just do your best to move on. Pick up some extra chores around the house to take some stress off of their backs and eventually you'll move out and you'll be able to have fun with your diapers to your heart's content.
4. Coworkers: It really depends on what kind of job that you have. For example, if you work as a police officer, in an ambulance, or any other job where you help people in dangerous situations, I would recommend to not wear diapers to work. Diapers can and will impede your movement and they will distract you from your work, which could be crucial to saving someone's life. Just save your diapers for home and when you're not working.
The ideal setting for wearing diapers to work would be either retail or in an office-type setting where you don't move around a lot. As we all know, walking and moving around will make a diaper break down, leading to lessened absorbency and a higher chance of leaks. My general rule of thumb is that if it can take five full wettings before leaking on the sixth, I would change my diaper on the fourth wetting just to be safe. I've never had leaks happen when done in this manner, and if it works for me, it'll work for you too.
So let's say one of your coworkers finds out that you're wearing a diaper and they mention it to you. It really depends on the situation, but you can easily say that it's not of their business and leave it at that. I highly recommend wearing non-ABDL diapers to work because if they saw a pink and purple diaper, they might think it's something other than a medical issue. If you wore a regular white diaper, their first thought would be that it's a medical issue and chances are they wouldn't bring it up with you.
Naturally, people will eventually discover that you're wearing diapers, so it's best to be prepared for when that time comes. Here's how to handle that with different kinds of people!
1. Complete Strangers: These are the people that you find out in public, like supermarkets, on the street, and in various stores. If these people notice that you're diapered, you're in no danger at all, so don't worry about a thing! You'll never ever see these people ever again, and if you do, chances are that they are not going to remember you or why they remember you if they do. There is also a very, very, high chance that they will simply notice that you're wearing a diaper then not say anything about it at all.
Look at it from their point of view. Can you imagine how embarrassing it'd be for you to go up to someone and say, "Hey, your diaper is sticking out above your pants." It'd be incredibly awkward for both parties, so people usually don't do this. You'd be completely safe, aside from a few odd looks until you fix the problem. Long shirts and a sweatshirt tied around your waist are both great ways to hide your diaper sticking up over your waistband. You can also wear onesies or tuck your shirt into your bottoms.
At the end of the day, you can easily forget about these people noticing that you're wearing a diaper. They'll just see that you're in a diaper (if it's really obvious, of course, but you shouldn't be flaunting your diaper or making it obvious in the first place), shrug, and then go on with their day.
2. Friends: Now this is when it gets interesting. Depending on the situation, there are many ways to deal with this, but here are a couple scenarios.
Let's say you're hanging out with a single friend and they notice that you're wearing a diaper and they react in a negative way. You can easily say that you lost a bet, and that it was either wear diapers for a day or pay $100. Just laugh it off with them and say you'd wear diapers any day instead of paying up. If they say, "Well, couldn't you have just said that you did it instead of actually doing it?", then you can respond with, "I'm a man/woman of my word." You can then also say that if you won the bet, the other person would have had to snort two lines of super hot sauce in each of their nostrils or pay you $100.
There's a decent chance of them telling their friends about you in a diaper. You can either laugh it off and act like it's no big deal or you can vehemently deny everything. They don't have any proof to back up their claim, but you can pretty much count on that person no longer being your friend anymore, obviously. Besides, if they went and blabbed about you in diapers to others, then they weren't really your friend to begin with. Cut them out of your life and move on if they make a big deal about it.
Another scenario would be if a friend found out and responded in a positive manner. You could also say that it was a bet in the scenario above or you could simply tell them the truth if your friendship with them is strong. You wouldn't really have much to worry about in this situation, and who knows, they might do some research about the fetish and try it out. Even if they don't try it out, a good friend would want to learn more to understand it.
3. Family: Now this is a very tricky situation to handle, and it really depends on who finds out and how weak or strong your relationship with them is. Everyone's family situation is different, so it's very hard to navigate this or to suggest what to do, but if you think your relationship with your parents is strong, I recommend that you tell the truth. You like diapers. What of it? It's not like you're buying drugs or alcohol. It'll be awkward for them and for you, of course, but that's to be expected. If you still live at home and use diapers there, just be as discreet as possible; your parents might just ignore it if you're lucky. If not, just wear them when they aren't home and dispose of them before they get home.
Your parents finding your diapers, dry or used, will be very awkward for them. Naturally, they'll wonder if it's a medical issue and they'll ask you about it. Once again, the truth is your best friend. Just say that it's a fetish for you and leave it at that. Don't lie and say that you need them for a medical reason because your parents will most likely take you to the doctor.
Things will be tense for a while, so just do your best to move on. Pick up some extra chores around the house to take some stress off of their backs and eventually you'll move out and you'll be able to have fun with your diapers to your heart's content.
4. Coworkers: It really depends on what kind of job that you have. For example, if you work as a police officer, in an ambulance, or any other job where you help people in dangerous situations, I would recommend to not wear diapers to work. Diapers can and will impede your movement and they will distract you from your work, which could be crucial to saving someone's life. Just save your diapers for home and when you're not working.
The ideal setting for wearing diapers to work would be either retail or in an office-type setting where you don't move around a lot. As we all know, walking and moving around will make a diaper break down, leading to lessened absorbency and a higher chance of leaks. My general rule of thumb is that if it can take five full wettings before leaking on the sixth, I would change my diaper on the fourth wetting just to be safe. I've never had leaks happen when done in this manner, and if it works for me, it'll work for you too.
So let's say one of your coworkers finds out that you're wearing a diaper and they mention it to you. It really depends on the situation, but you can easily say that it's not of their business and leave it at that. I highly recommend wearing non-ABDL diapers to work because if they saw a pink and purple diaper, they might think it's something other than a medical issue. If you wore a regular white diaper, their first thought would be that it's a medical issue and chances are they wouldn't bring it up with you.
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