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On Bedwetting

Why would you want to become a bedwetter? Well, that was an easy one for me!

1. You can sleep through the night.

2. You wake up feeling warm, content, and relaxed.

3. Your day starts off amazing because you have a soggy diaper hugging you.

Due to my small bladder, I used to get up a few times each night to go relieve myself before I diaper trained myself, and I would always wake up so tired each morning. I’d struggle to get anything done for hours. Wanting to get a full night’s sleep was a big factor in why I diaper trained myself, and honestly? It’s the best decision I’ve made in years, aside from becoming diaper dependent, of course!

So what’s it like being a bedwetter?

1. I don’t have to wake up to go pee; I just go in my sleep! I’m so glad that I can do this, and I love waking up in a wet, warm, and soggy diaper each morning. Becoming a bedwetter was one of my ultimate kinky fantasies, and I made that fantasy into a reality. You can too!

2. When I first started wetting in my sleep, I always worried about leaking and making my bed and my sheets reek of urine, which made it hard to continue. Over time, I figured out what intake of fluids and what diapers I had to wear to give myself that peace of mind needed to become an adult bedwetter. Furthermore, I had to learn how to become comfortable sleeping on my back. I was always a side sleeper, so while this was a little hard for me, I was able to learn how to sleep on my back after a few weeks or so. Becoming a bedwetter is a lot easier when you sleep in the same position that you used when you trained yourself to wet laying down.

3. No matter what amount of fluids you drink during the day and before bed, you always have to wear the thickest diaper you can afford. This means buying the premium ABDL diapers that hold a lot, and those can get pricey! After being a bedwetter for a couple of years now, I’ve become such a heavy wetter that the diaper that I trusted to protect me at night, the Abena M4, started leaking. :( I was basically forced to buy more expensive diapers, which in turn made me get a lesser amount of diapers for the same price. For example, instead of spending $50 on a case of Abena M4s (42 diapers), I would have to buy something like the ABU Preschool, and a bag of those are $27 for 10. Two bags is around the same price for 42 M4s, and I only got 20 diapers. As much as I love the Preschool from ABU, I can’t really afford to wear those during the day because I need them a heck of a lot more at night. That’s why it’s important to have day time diapers and night time diapers.

4. When it comes to wondering if you need a diaper for bed, it isn’t a matter of wondering if you might pee in your sleep; it’s a matter of when because it will happen. It’s not like skipping brushing your teeth before bed, you know? You absolutely have to put on a fresh diaper; you can’t just go to bed in a diaper that’s already pretty wet because there’s a high chance that it’ll leak. If you wake up in the middle of the night and realize you’re about to leak, you’ll have to get up and change yourself, which in turn defeats the purpose of becoming a bedwetter so you can sleep through the night without waking up.

5. You’ll always fear wetting the bed, no matter what, but you can lower the risk of that happening by wearing thick, proper-fitting diapers that you’ve tested and trust. Buying a waterproof mattress protector is another good, cheap step, and on top of that, you can buy washable or disposable pads that are made for bedwetters like me. Nobody likes replacing a mattress because you soaked it in your sleep, and buying bed pads are a heck of a lot cheaper than buying a new mattress!

6. Naturally, needing diapers for bedtime can have an impact on dating and relationships. While there are many who find diaper dependency in this manner to be a turn off, there are also many others out there who will either not care about it or they’ll accept it and help you with it. Most people haven’t even heard about the ABDL fetish/lifestyle, and a lot of them are open-minded, especially in today’s society. Your potential future partner could love the idea of you giving up control to them, and help you embrace that awesome part of you into something beautiful.

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