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Diapered at the Bar

So I went out drinking last weekend with some friends (we took an uber there and back), and of course, I was padded like I always am. This particular group of friends do NOT know that I’m diaper dependent, so I had to be a little careful around them. I don’t mind people knowing, but I don’t tell people, “Hey, just so you know, I need diapers!” If they find out, it’s whatever. Many people have discovered that I wear diapers instead of panties; it’s easy to see who is really your friend or not based on how they react.
 
We had pre-gamed a little bit at my place so we wouldn’t have to spend a ton at the bar, and when we were all getting ready to head out to get in the uber, I quickly changed my diaper in my bathroom. When my gal pals were shouting at me to hurry up from the door, I snuck a couple of M4s into my purse, and off we went!

By the time we got to the bar, my diaper was already a little wet, no doubt from the drinks we had just a while earlier. There wasn’t a line in front of the bar yet, so we showed the bouncer our IDs and scurried inside. With a stroke of luck, we all managed to get seats right next to each other at the bar, and after a bit of time, the bar became jam-packed with a ton of people; it was basically packed like a can of sardines!

When my friends had to rush off to the bathroom like every thirty minutes or so, I simply sat in my chair and smirked as I felt my diaper grow warmer and thicker as the night went on. I didn’t have to risk getting up and having someone steal my chair because I didn’t need to; I just went in my diaper!
I did have to check myself pretty often as the drinks kept coming, but I was pretty sure that I didn’t have to change. I was wearing a Betterdry diaper, and they sure can hold a ton! I was wearing a skirt with some old leggings that honestly need replacing, so I didn’t have to worry about my diaper showing through my clothes.

As the night came to a close and the bar’s patrons started leaving, I excused myself to the ladies room for the first time that night, and with my luck, nobody else came in! I took advantage of the privacy and changed my diaper in the furthest stall from the bathroom door. Even if people were in the bathroom, the loud music would have definitely hidden the sound of me ripping the tapes off of my diaper. I made quick time changing myself, wrapped my old diaper into a ball, and tossed it in the trash before I washed my hands.

So listen, I know I’ve said how disgusting public bathrooms can be, but this one definitely took the cake! Some poor girl had thrown up in the stall next to mine, and they didn’t have the decency to clean it up. The toilets were old and discolored, and the stall doors didn’t even have the original locks on them. I would never in a million years sit down on such a thing to relieve myself; I’m sure there were all sorts of germs in that awful bathroom!

On my way back out, I let the bar staff know of the mess in the ladies room, paid my tab, and walked out with my friends. By the time my uber came (everyone else took their own rides home), my diaper was already pretty soggy, and I’m glad that it lasted me all the way home, because as I unlocked my front door, I felt a little trickle run down the side of my leg. I couldn’t do much else than groan and shrug, so I changed into my night time diaper (another Betterdry), flopped on the bed, snuggled my favorite pillow, then fell asleep.

And yes, I did wake up in a soggy diaper!

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